I am unemployed and owe back child support and have a warrant for not paying child support me and my sons mother talked and she wants to cancel the child support and we will handle it on our own I was told that the courts won't cancel the child support we got the paper work and are trying to fill it out but I just want to know if we can cancel the child support and just deal with it between ourselves and not deal with the state of nem york

Did your wife file for public assistance? Once a support order has been issued I don't think it can be canceled. Especially when there are arrears.

Along time ago me and sons father got back together, so we just went to the court house together and dropped the case. It stopped all back pay. I wasn't howerver, getting assistance from the state. That was back in 2002-2003 and in MI

Here it is... there is probably nothing you can do. I tried dropping on my sons dad but because I went in front of the grand jury and had him indicted the state took over. And if your child's mother received assistance from the government or is receiving that will have to paid back first. Good luck honey! And to let you know my sons father owes 35,000 in back support and getting ready to head to prison again for child support. Just pay something every week whether its $5.00 or $50.00.