My fiancé and I of 2 and 1/2 yrs which we've been together three years just had a baby in October. My fiancé has an Internet porn addiction which through my crazy post pregnancy crazies have helped me find out. Needless to say I was trying to recover an email password and low and behold 2 more email addresses pop up associated with our account. So of course I change the passwords and look in these email accounts which are his. One had a membership to plenty of fish a dating site and the other to an online hook up site. Deep breath... here comes the hard part neither one has been used or has even had an email opened in either of the email accounts forever... these memberships were opened July of 2009 which we were together and doing well so I thought... last his profile for the dating site is nasty and talking about dirty stuff which makes me irate... I don't know what to do... should I say something over a poor decision he made over a year ago and didn't follow through on... and ruin the holidays and possibly end us... or let it go? Help I have no one to talk to
Sad and lost