I met this guy one night, we talked for a while and had sex 3 days later, now I think I'm pregnant by him and he just calls me when he needs money or rides or wants to have sex. Since he don't care that much about me I'm scared to tell him because I think he's just going to leave and not be in the baby's life, what should I do or how do I tell him.

When you say you think you're pregnant by him, does that mean that you think you're pregnant, don't know, or you are pregnant and you just don't know if he's the dad?

If you are pregnant than you'll have to wait until the baby is born, get a DNA test done with all the potential dads. If this guy is the dad, you take him to court and demand support payments. Sadly you can't demand that he be a part of the babies life, but at least he'll be required to help support the child.

So you'll have to play the waiting game.

Is there any other potential fathers? As that is when the situation gets a bit more tricky. If so like the above says you will have to wait till the baby is born for a DNA test but I would inform all the potential fathers of what is to come. If there is just the one father I would talk to him and explain what's going on as nobody else knows how he will react except him hun

Well he's tha only guy I been having relations with, but his friends say otherwise. He might not believe me and not even try to get a DNA test. Thank you though, I am going to wait.

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Originally Posted by Gaby_2564

. He might not believe me and not even try to get a DNA test. .

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He may cause an argument over the dna test but if you went to a solicitor he would have no choice in the matter. He would be made by law to find out. I would however try to talk to him one on one first though and see what is said.

He is going to tell when you start showing, so once you are sure, you tell him.

And when the baby is born you file for custody and ask the courts to order child support.

Not telling him does not change anything