I want to no can you please tell me exactuall how I go about getting a divorce by running an ad in the paper?

First its not a good idea to piggyback your question on someone else's. This can lead to confusion. You should start a new thread. So I've moved your question to its own thread.

The answer to your question is you don't. To get a divorce you have to go through a court. Placing an ad may be a part of the process if you need to inform your spouse when you don't know where the spouse is.

If you post more details we may be able to help further.