Evrey time my mom gets in a fight with me she calls me an ungreatful bas**d motherfu**** ECT just today she said to jesus why did I have to have a child and now she said she's going to take my eloence and chrisimas money and move out leavimg me with my dad and that's going to be hard on both of us because my dad has(pd)parkensons desies it make him shake and makes it hard to move sometimes what should I do
*** help and comment I'm only 12

No I don't think your mom hates you, it sounds like she is overwhelmed and lost, and maybe generally displeased with her life... Not specifically you! Please do not blame yourself for anything she might do or say...
It sounds as if she is fairly unapproachable, I wouldn't try talking her out of doing anything, don't provoke her I guess.
I would talk to someone about this though, immediately... Like a counselor or teacher at school, or find a number for a social worker in town. It's not fair you are being verbally abused by your own mother, she really has no right to tell you she wished you hadn't been born... What an awful thing for a mother to say!
Does your dad know what is going on?
I wish you luck, and if your mom ever physically hurts you please tell someone right away!

No, it is more likely that your Mom hates her life and maybe has a great lot of dissatisfaction with herself. I advise you to talk to someone you can trust immediately. A teacher, a trustworthy relative, a minister, or even your family doctor. Your mom may have an emotional or mental problem that causes her to behave this way as well. It is not about you though, and as hard as it is, you must not give what she says to you any credibility. If you were all these things, you would not be seeking help. Please take this very, very seriously, though and get the help you need.

First what are you and her fighting about, Do you have outside help to help with your dad ?
Being the care giver for someone with your dads disease can be hard, and sadly your dad may only be getting worst over time, and you mom knows that her life will be getting harder and harder.

Perhaps she needs and expects more of you than nomal other 12 year olds because of this.