How do I move on when my boyfriend has passed away?
Here's my heartbreaking story. I meet this wonderful guy in June 2004 we started talking and we became a couple soon after that he was so special to me and he was the best. I fell in love with him, he was my first everything after a year of dating I lost my virginity to him which was very special. Although we had a big age difference it really didn't matter much. (to be exact there is an 8 yr difference) We were in love that's for sure, He always pushed me to finish school and go to college I felt secure with him I was in love w him. There was a lot of things we did that can never be replaced by anyone. We lasted 2 years 6 months, rite after we had celebrated our 2 years and 6 months annv he passed away. I remember being with him that whole day Friday and speaking to him that night over the phone reassuering me that he will come see me after he was done having a few drinks w his friends. But he never showed up I woke up Saturday morning so upset but than I got a call from his brother telling to rush to the hospital that something bad happen so I did and there I saw my boyfriend laying dying before my eyes, I broke down crying begging him not to leave me pleading for him to stay strong, but he couldn't do it he died a few hours later all he said was I love you. I sat besies that bed crying for hours just couldn't believe it. He was gone he had left me, I held onto him till the doctors made me leave my eyes where sore, red, I looked like someone had just killed me. In some ways I blame myself for his death. His brother later told me that he was shoot, I couldn't believe it, Yes my ex boyfriend was in a gang but he was changing his way but I guess people didn't like that so they killed him, we still don't know who did it but I know deep in my heart it was some guys that didn't like his changing ways. I miss him all the time and although times has passed I still can't move on I want him back so bad I still can't believe he's gone everyday is hard for me everyday is a struggle for me and I haven't been able to date, I don't know what to do anymore. Help me please.