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  • Jan 9, 2007, 05:36 PM
    cap
    I'm stuck in friendzone
    Obviously I'm a guy
    And I met this girl about 2 years ago
    And I really didn't like her you know I was friendly with her and w/e

    Then I started liking the girl but as a friend and we were just, friends
    But then one day boom... I started liking her
    And I asked her out and she said... see only sees me as a friend :( and the worst part is that I was nice to her because I didn't want anything with her
    In the first place and she probably put me on the friendzone a long time ago what can I do
  • Jan 9, 2007, 05:48 PM
    Ace High
    Hi Cap,

    Is she seeing someone else to your knowledge?? If not, then keep trying. Ask her to a "friendly" movie. Then dinner. Don't be pushy but show her your good side. Take her to the amusement park. Show her things about yourself that she probably is unaware of. It can open her eyes to the possibilities. Sometimes, people don't see what's under their very noses. Give it some time. If you don't get some progress then maybe you and her are not meant to be. -- Ace
  • Jan 9, 2007, 06:23 PM
    confusedgirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cap
    obviously im a guy
    and i met this girl about 2 years ago
    and i really didnt like her u know i was friendly with her and w/e

    then i started liking the girl but as a friend and we were just ,,friends
    but then one day boom ...i started liking her
    and i asked her out and she said... see only sees me as a friend :( and the worst part is that i was nice to her because i didnt want anything with her
    in the first place and she probably put me on the friendzone a long time ago what can i do

    Hey cap, I definitely feel your pain... I'm also in the friends zone.
    Just because she's not into dating you right now, doesn't mean there can't be a future with you guys. I agree with ace, take it slow, don't be pushy or too aggressive. Don't keep asking to go out as more than friends because that comes off as desperate, but don't play too hard to get cause that gets annoying sometimes. She might have feelings for you, and just doesn't know it yet. Good luck >>>confusedgirl
  • Jan 9, 2007, 07:19 PM
    cap
    I'm 15 and girls this days don't really go for dates



    How old are u guys
  • Jan 9, 2007, 07:42 PM
    confusedgirl
    I'm 14
  • Jan 9, 2007, 07:46 PM
    cap
    O OK
  • Jan 14, 2007, 01:17 PM
    confusedgirl
    What do you mean they don't go for dates? All my friends and I allways go out.
    Maybe this girl is just looking for a hookup or something

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