Been with my partner for 8 years we have two children and a pretty normal life .Sex life isn't great hasn't been for a couple of years down to me . Im never intersested in sex and to be honest find it quite painfull. Does anyone know of any remedies to low libido tried horny goat weed briefly with no effect I am worried this problem will ruin us I am prepared to try anything if you can help please drop me a line cheers!!

What's so painful about sex? Please don't leave this to my imagination!

Are you on any method of birth control? How are your periods? I ask this because you shouldn't be having pain during sex and its better to rule out the medical/physical first before wondering if it may be psychological or both. So if you've had a clean bill of health then it could be psychological, if not, then well, you get the picture.

I agree with tamed. A consult with your physician is in order.