True Story That should help People
I just wanted to post a story about my roommate.
In high school he dated this girl for 3 years and they broke up and it was very hard on him. She called and after a while of communicating after the breakup he just said don't call me it is too hard basically saying rather not talk to you anymore.
They didn't have any communication whatsover for almost 4 or 5 years. Not a phone call or anything. He said he didn't even think about anything had a girlfriend, had fun, dated others and completely moved on. They saw each other back in Michigan and started talking again. And now they are back together and very happy. He understood they were both too young for anything that serious and understood it just wasn't there time.
This isn't saying this is how you win your ex back but think about it fate will truly draw you too together if it was meant to be. You can always run into your ex a while down the road and never know it but don't force anything. Moving on helps you realize where you want to be in life and what you need and want out of relationships. They are actually doing long distance now and it is easier to make even that hard relationship work because being apart for so long allowed them to make other mistakes and know what works and what doesn't.
So bascically move on from your ex and really do the NO CONTACT! That means don't check, Facebook, email or anything. Because think about it looking at them everyday even if you are doing no contact means you are seeing them everyday. Maybe you can't touch or talk to them but you are with them and haven't move on. Go away, find things you like to do, spend time with your family and friends because an EX is one person. Your family and friends no matter where you go in life will always be there for you. TRUE FRIENDS are hard to come by. Relationships do come and go. Work out, focus on your work and just enjoy life. If you are in high school understand that when you get even through college you will look back and regret things back then or not having a good time. You only get one chance in each phases of your life, why waste time worrying about things you can't control.
Being dumped or just not being in a relationship isn't the end of the world. You are still alive and have many more days to live and find true happiness. Happiness doesn't occur because of a woman, they may CONTRIBUTE to your happiness, but ultimately the only one who makes you happy is you. You put thoughts in your mind and subconciously tell yourself the way you want to think and only you.
Life is harsh and sucks sometimes, but it can also be truly rewarding. When you get older wouldn't you rather look back and think of all the great experiences you have had and say you know what I lived a fulfilling life. I did everything I wanted to do or had the ability to.
Thanks I just hate to see so many people so down and in the rocks about this. I am hurt too but not in the way I think. I miss my ex but not to the point where it disrupts my life. I am living the dream right now, out in a great area, with a great job and having the freedom to do whatever I want. At 23 years old, I know there is so much I can do with my life and I plan on doing it.