Is it normal for a girl to have more guy friends than girl friends?
She always says, 'Why don't you trust me?'. I tell her I do, but my paranoia always kicks in. She's been living with me for well over 3 years, and if I tell her not to talk to someone, she normally doesn't. Now she's left me, and told me she loves me, she just can't live with me. She needs space, and we'll re-evaluate after a few weeks. However, we're still having sex every time we see each other. I know she's not cheating, a guy just knows these things. She doesn't feel different, and I have been cheated on before. Trust me, if she was cheating, I would know it. What should I do? She does hang out with her guy friends. Recently she went to a bar with a guy, but she asked me to meet her afterwards so WE could do OUR OWN thing. I thought this was a good sign, and she didn't hesitate to tell me what happened. There was nothing, and I do trust her. In my heart, I don't think she's looking for anyone else. She almost always takes my calls, but there are times she doesn't. She tells me she's busy, and why do I always have to check up on her. I'm scared if I can't change my paranoid ways, I might have lost her forever.