Hi I'm 13 and I like a 16/17 and ve caught him looking at me couple times he's really nice to me and he's not the perverted kind of people is it possible he might like me and if he does what would be you're opinions on me going out with him.Eerybody asked me how can you lk him he's ugly but I tink he's sweet and I've liked him from day 1 and id NEVA EVA engage in sex at this age!! Please comment

Why don't you start by saying hi?

I think at 13, there are other things you should be focusing on. For example, school.

He is too old for you. A 16/17 year olds mind set is different then a 13 year old.

Perhaps you should just be friends with him. The kind that say hello to each other, and that's it.

Good Luck.

In my opinion I do not think everything is about age. But on the other hand this is a complicated situation because at this age your minds are completely on different things. The gap between a 13 year old and a 16/17 year old is huge. Not meaning to sound patronising but its best to not get involved because it could cause an extremely difficult situation.

I do say hi and he says hi bak he's really friendly wit me and I was talking 2 his brother who's thirty and he seems to go all queit and akward when I talk about him he's using do tat be4 till I got to no his brother a bit the probmlem about it he's in 6th

Year tat worrys me a bit :/

Please use correct spelling and punctuation. That's a rule you agreed to when you registered for this site -- no chatspeak, no texting. Your posts are not readable.

I did figure out something about your liking an older boy. Please hang out with kids your own age. You'd be setting him up to end up in jail. Sex is very much on the minds of males from ummmm 15 to 83.

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year tat worrys me a bit :/

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Kyeota, it took me a few minutes to decipher what you were saying.

The "year" is 2010
Tat is slang for a tattoo
Worries, not worrys

I was really lost for a minute.

It's important to write using proper complete words, in the best English you're capable of. Most of the Experts on this site are older and don't understand chat speak. Also, it's against the rules of the site.

Put some time into your posts. A lot of us here will not bother with a post that's not decipherable. Okay?

What does your mother and father say? Before you start thinking about getting into a relationship with anyone you need to know what your parents will allow you to do.

At 13 you are really too young to do more than group date.

His thirty year old brother may get quiet because he knows his brother has no business messing with you.

First off what do your parents think of your dating, and dating a 16/17 year old?
What we think means nothing.
Although I will say you have no business dating this boy. He is too old for you. You two are on two different pages and stages of life.

I realise now I don't care what people think I like this fella and I'm going with him now age is only a number after all but thank you everyone for your answers I espect all of them gratefully sorry about my text writhing I didn't relise I was doing it thanks again kyeota xxx

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Originally Posted by kyeota

I realise now i dont care what people think i like this fella and im going with him now age is only a number after all but thank you everyone for your answers i espect all of them greatfully sorry about my text writhing i didnt relise i was doing it thanks again kyeota xxx

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Uh-huh. Most of the people who say that age is just a number, are doing so to justify something they know deep down is wrong. But you neglected to respond to two of us who asked the all important question about what your parents have to say. Before you do ANYTHING with this guy you need their approval. And if you go behind their back, it will further show how immature you are.

But you seem a typical 13 yr old, you know better than anyone else and you want what YOU want, not what's best for you.

Sorry but I don't no everytig but what I no is I v him and tat wnt chage

Shoot sorry short text agan I write it again I don't tink I know everything but what I do know is I love him and what anyone says won't chaneit

Sorry but at 13 its unlikely you really know what love is. You don't even know how to write a complete sentence in plain english! And why have you, again, failed to tell us what your parents think? Probably because they are either not aware or against it. This may be contributing to what you think is love.

I don't no what love is your right but I do know what its like to have a crush ad that's what most boyfriends and girlfriends go out with because of that and no my parents don't know but who cares they give out to me if I fell

Fall I mean I know my englsh is bad I'm a dop

Dope and why keyboareds fecked

I'm sure your parents would not approve.
A 16/17 year old boy should have no interest in a girl your age.
You are what in middle school and he is in High School. You two have nothing in common.