My new girlfriend is engaged to another guy...
I have recently met a girl who I am really into, actually the 1st person in years that I've met that I can see a long and happy future together with, even marry and start a family. We get along really well, have the same interests, work in the same field, we are a perfect match and are so happy when we're together. The problem is she is engaged to her current boyfriend and the wedding is planned for very soon. The boyfriend is insanely jealous, a complete control freak and monitors her every movement even tracking her mobile phone by GPS to see where she is, has passwords to all her email and messaging accounts. She is supposed to marry him and move to live with him in his home country which she doesn't want to do, He no longer hugs or cuddles her they haven't had sex for months apparently. Recently after weeks of just being together and bonding, we finally made love to each other and it was better than we both thought, wonderful and has brought us even closer together. She said she loved me and wants to be with me but just give her time to end it with her boyfriend as they have been together for two years and she will have to do it gradually. After a wonderful day together she said she has to go tome and tell him, his parents and her parents that the wedding must be postponed. She called as she was arriving home and said "see you tomorrow babe, don't worry I don't want to stay with him anymore. That was rwo days ago now and she hasn't answered my calls, texts or anything.. I am going crazy sitting here not knowing what to do, what is happening or if she is OK.
My heart is really set on this girl and I don't want to lose her. My friends say to just wait, she's probably having to deal with all sorts of stuff etc etc but I can't undrstand why there's been no contact for so long.
So worried and frustrated at the moment.
Any advise or support very much appreciated
Comment on Jake2008's post
Been here 5 years, She is from wealthy family and has her own money. I know where she works and have met her colleagues, She has no reason to scam me. He is Swedish. I'll go to the police today.as I can't take much more of this stress and uncertainty
Comment on Cat1864's post
I know you are right about this... I've done all I can. I think I will give her ultimatum to take proper action( with all my help of course) to get away from him or forget about me... I don't deserve the misery I am going through especially at Xmas