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  • Dec 11, 2010, 08:03 PM
    josepho28
    I think my girlfriend doesn't really like me
    I'm only 15 and I've read acouple of comments about this topic.. I love my girlfriend so much I've never been this happy in my life.. but enyway this weekend I asked her to go to the movies with me. She told me she probley could but she wasent for sure. So this weekend we ended up not going.But the problem is that at school she doesn't want a hug.. or even hold hands. She is in the grade under me so I only get to see her between periods.And we have been going out for 5 weeks and we haven't even hanged out after school.We talk every night and she tells me she loves me and I love her of course. But I'm not sure if she really likes me enough to hang out with me. Help??
  • Dec 12, 2010, 06:21 AM
    tickle

    I think she probably has some growing up to do.

    Tick
  • Dec 13, 2010, 12:21 PM
    aurora_rena
    This sounds cruel/cliche but it sounds like she's just not that into you. I show my guy off every chance I get. There's no way I can't hold his hand or hug him or touch him in some way when we are together, in public or private. You might have to move on from this one and find someone more mature. Try talking to her about it first though, communication is key.
  • Dec 16, 2010, 12:43 PM
    josepho28
    Comment on aurora_rena's post
    She is in the 8th grade.. so how mature do you have to be... but enyway I talked to her about it and she didn't really responded to it.. I guess she doesn't like me... I really don't know what to do??
  • Dec 16, 2010, 01:12 PM
    Homegirl 50

    Not everyone like public displays of affection. That has nothing to do with maturity.
    Maybe she does not like you as much as you do her.
  • Dec 28, 2010, 10:21 PM
    aurora_rena
    Comment on Homegirl 50's post
    If that is in reference to my post, I wasn't trying to say that lack of PDA is a lack of maturity, more her attitude towards her boyfriend and how she was treating him/responding to him based on what was described was a sign of a lack of maturity.
  • Dec 29, 2010, 09:46 AM
    Homegirl 50

    I think the way she behaved, considering her age showed she just was not into him.

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