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Hi guys. This is my first post here. I needed some advice
Ok. A couple of Fridays ago I go on a date with an old friend from grade school that I hadn't seen in close to 7 years. The date went perfect. I ended up staying the night with her.
While in the bed we started making out and almost got to the point of sex but she said she didn't want to give it up so soon. But it was obvious that she was attracted to me.
So the next morning we get up and exchange goodbyes. The following Wednesday and Thursday I come back to her house and we're having a good time. More fooling around but we didn't have sex. This time she said she wanted to but was on her period. Im almost certain if I go see her next week, we will probably have sex.
This brings me to my question. While we're in-person, she's all over me (acting affectionately and sexual). She's constantly talking about how I'm such a great guy and how we've hit it off. BUT when I'm not around she doesn't seem to pay me much attention. Considering the fact that we have come so close to sex multiple times I would expect her to want to have more frequent communication with me. She never initiates phone calls/texts/ or dates (I text her everyday just to say hi, call every few days, and want to get into the habit of seeing her at least twice weekly). She doesn't blow me off and she is willing to see me, but its just confusing and a little disheartening that she doesn't seem to want more communication with me. I'm used to girls at least texting me daily when we get to the point I'm at with this girl.
I should also note: last week she told me that she has been dating someone else since around may. They're not exclusive and she says it isn't that serious. She also said that he doesn't treat her the way she wants to be treated, but that she thought she should tell me. Ironically she said that it seems like she's the one always getting blown off by him and that she's putting more effort into their "dating". I was a little turned off by her telling me this, but I've decided to deal with it because I want to pursue something furhter with her
She says that she is starting to like me, as I am her, but her actions when not in my presence are a little opposite of that. I have a desire to speak to her at least once everyday but she doesn't share this. What should I do? Am I coming on too strong? Also, at this point how often should I be seeing her and just calling/texting?
We're both 21 y.o. seniors at two separate but nearby universities.