OK so me and my boyfriend went out for three years but right around the 3 year mark we had a rough patch and decided he wanted some space, so we were apart for about 2 months but during this 2 months he ended up going out with this other girl ( who was tottaly diff from me, someone who was something he said he wouldn't ever go out with, examples he loves blonde(my hair color) her hair color is black ,I love fourwheeler like him she hates them,she way bigger than me,and I wear clothes from pacsun and she wear preppy clothes (just not his type I just couldn't understand it ) Anyway they went out for little over a month (an had already had sex) but they broke up like every week and always were fighting! So I got a call from him on thanksgiving and he was crying saying he can't stay away from me any longer and that he love me so much and realized how much he missed me! So he dumped her and since I love him so MUCH ,I took him back! But here's the catch, him and her want to be friends and they want us three to hang out and stuff (wierd ,right?)!! I really don't like it but I'm kind of willing to do anything for him ! But what should I do? She claims she in love with her ex! I guess they were just a big rebound relationship! I hope this makes sense I'm not good at explaining things! Oh yeah ps. My boyfriend says that him and hers relationship wasn't like our, he say they had a friend relationship and just chill and that mine and his is more lovey dovey! He says she would be close to him because she was so wraped up in her ex! OK,, what do you think??

I'd tell him that if he wants to get back with you, he will need to break it from her permanently. If he doesn't, then you two are not going to be seeing each other.

I agree , it sounds weird hanging out with your boyfriend's ex . Totally!

This is one point I have made my guy clear on , he is not allowed to be in touch with any of his ex-es and the same applies to me , its been over a year now . Things are fine in that front . Trust me , it will def be uncomfy .

The point is , if your guy wants to be with you and loves you he won't hesitate or argue that he wants to be in touch with that girl . Both of your comfort level has to be in synch after all

I can't see taking someone back, and they bring an ex they had sex with back with them. NO WAY!! Just ain't that much love in the world, and you shouldn't need someone that badly, that you would go along with just anything to keep them.

Or maybe he's looking for that 'special' 3 way love?