Basically we split up a week ago, we have been together for nearly 2 years and I feel so upset and hurt. We argued quite often and I think that's the reason why she split up with me, but its crazy because she keeps ignoring me and when she does talk to me she is really nasty. But I know she really loves me because we spent every day together for the 2 years and we were so so close. She said that she is just sick of everything, basically the arguing and a few other things. She keeps telling me to leave her alone but its so hard, I do think if I leave her alone for a while she will start missing me again but I find it so hard not to text her.

Please help me

Of course she is angry and nasty when you try to talk to her. She told you to leave her alone... you need to respect that! If you contine to try to contact her against her wishes you will just drive her further away. You can't make her talk to you!

If she really loved you she would be with you right now. Just because you spent 2 yrs together doesn't mean that her feelings do not change.
Accept that it's over, the end... kaput! It's up to her to come back to you if she wants and there's nothing you can do to make her.

It's hard but, you need to move on. Start living your own life. Go no contact if it is too hard. Read all the stickies at the top of the relationship page, they are very helpful.

She's already told you how she feels, so you need to accept reality. Time to move on.

I feel like you've left a lot of details out of your post. What kind of a relationship have you two had?

Hopefully after a bit of time try get in touch with her about something that won't start an argument. Im in the same predicament at the moment and going through the whole NC phase. Its tough, but I've got a small bit of (probably) false hope.

Bow out gracefully, and keep your dignity and self respect. You will look like the biggest fool the way you are going.


Talaniman Rule-When they ask for a break, give it to them and do your own thing.

Talaniman Rules- when you get dumped, don't go back to get dumped again

Talaniman Rule - Don't miss other opportunities and options because your stuck on someone who is not as stuck on you, that’s just plain crazy.

Talaniman Rule-Love yourself enough to never allow any one to treat you badly. If they do, LEAVE.

Talaniman Rule- When you see a brick wall, don't go head first into it, and expect to get on the other side.

Talaniman Rule - If they can't treat you like you want to be treated, don't mess around with them.

Talaniman Rule- When you allow bad behavior, you will get it.

Talaniman Rule-if they don't like you, forget 'em.

We had a very very very close relationship for the whole 2 years, as in seeing each other every day and texting a lot and basically doing everything together, but we have argued quite a few times and we have split up a few times too only.