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  • Jan 8, 2007, 03:11 PM
    ladyred1
    Do I just leave him?
    Ive been seeing a married man who I told I wouldn't go down that path with I had weak moments so the fun started
    After a year to started to because ome heavy we always laughted had no problems inteacting he told me he wife showed him no affection that's whyhe looked else where as it started to was getting heavy I hve taken the cake and eat it away from him now he said lets just chat.as we both said it would mess us up I know think about his wife and all the stuff around it but if it wasn't me it would hve been some2 else.now chatting I'm hveing more hope of chatting with the pope It feels like I'm no longer exciting to him and you can't just chat a one way converstaion. I'm now thinking was I just used and he s now on 2 another play thing. Do I just vanish away in the clouds now and learn by all what's happened .
  • Jan 8, 2007, 03:19 PM
    Wildcat21
    All lies from him - you're the mistress.

    The married guys will lie, cheat and steal to be with you

    If he cheated on her - he will cheat on you.

    I promise you he will NEVER leave his wife.

    Wait for the divorce papers SIGNED and he has his OWN place. Before oyu even ever talk with him!!

    You're just asking for massive heart ache and sorrow. + shear stupidity.

    Yes - 100% you were used. ALways.
  • Jan 8, 2007, 03:23 PM
    TheSavage
    Sad to tell you ----yup.
    You knew the score when you went down that path I would think.
    How many guys/gals when cheating on their spouse say o the sex/ relationship is great --I`m just a cheater?
  • Jan 8, 2007, 03:26 PM
    Wildcat21
    You're no longer exciting because you no longer give him the ONE thing he wants - sex. He wants nothing else. Oh hell play the game and take you dinner.
  • Jan 8, 2007, 03:30 PM
    BIM
    Yep, the chase and catch is over. You no longer interest him because he has caught you and you feed his hunger. He wants a new chase and the excitement that comes with it. Should have known that when you started with this guy. :cool:
  • Jan 8, 2007, 04:30 PM
    Wildcat21
    Good - please find a nice available man.

    He he's hot and sexy to you because he so unavaialble to you - and VERY unhealthy for you.
  • Jan 9, 2007, 12:11 PM
    talaniman
    If you didn't learn from the past you will do it again. Leave the married men alone, they are the best liars in the world, bar none.
  • Jan 9, 2007, 01:37 PM
    Wildcat21
    Not all married men are bad. But there are a lot of sharks that will lie, cheat, and steal to only have sex with you. Never trust a married man who says he is in a bad divorce... wait for the divorce papers are signed and he LIVES ON HIS OWN!! Do not say another word to him until then - tell him that to his face - you WILL never hear from him again.
  • Feb 15, 2007, 09:18 AM
    band-aid
    What comes around gos around if he really care about you he will leave his wife but that not true all man who cheat say they are not sleeping with there love one just to have some side fun because that all you are you need to see how long they were with each other and I sure you was not the frist
  • Jun 30, 2007, 03:21 AM
    mag oblivious
    I think he's lost interest.

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