I really like this boy in my school, he is the same age, we get on really well, he has a girl friend, but he knows I like him, we don't have any of the same lessons, and I can't meet up with him outside of school, because he boards at school, but when we see each other its amazing, we hug and we could talk for hours, what can I do? All my friends know but I made him promise not to tell his friends or room mates I like him, what's evan worse is, I kind of like his friend, he is from the bahamas and he is so funny! We could talk for hours to, but don't judge me here, this sounds really shalow, but he is really fat, and everyone already talks about it, and I know it seems really mean, but I don't really want to go out with a fat person, alought he is lovley! :S please don't judge me, I just don't know what to do?

He is real fat and you need cute guy who already have girl friend , you better stick for being friends only , and please don't call a guy fat, if his jokes make you laugh and you can't go out with him because his fat , well I don't blame you on that every girl have there type of taste on guys , and don't judge people by their looking , I hate the type people like that.

So it's okay to be friends with a fat guy, but not OK to date him?

Yeah of course because his fat she can't date him , fat people are the most chillin people every I have two friends who they are fat , and cool too , I don't know what is wrong dating a fat guy , because his fat , and I hate people who judge on their lookings, guess what ? You will find a hot guy and can break your heart two million pieaces you know why ? Because you dated him because of his looking! person look and the way his mentality and talk is way different , stop judging people by their looks.

I did say don't judge me, but thanks for ranting on to me.. I really appreciate it! If I had a mum I would talk to her about it rather than posting it on the internet! I'm sorry but being 13 is a hard age! Ecspecialy when my mum died when I was 10!!

I'm really sorry, but everyone is abit shallow and I am size 6 and my friends already go on about my weight, and his weight! I was only asking for an opinoin! Please could you just tell me, zach or lawrence! (lawrence-guy with gf)

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Thank you (: x

No one can tell you who to pick as your boyfriend, but I can tell you who you shouldn't pick : the guy with a girlfriend!

He's off limits, at least for now. I don't even understand why it matters so much when you're so young. Save yourself some drama and stay away from boys you don't even want to date.
(It's true, if you really liked Zach, his weight wouldn't bother you. If you really liked Lawrence, you wouldn't think about Zach.) Now leave them alone and enjoy being 13!

Keep them both as FRIENDS, and enjoy their company. Then it doesn't matter if one has a girlfriend, (which is unfair and would make you a selfish cheater), or one is weight challenged (which is a lousy excuse not to really like someone, but that's up to you!).

You are rather young to be shallow, or a selfish cheater. But you can learn just to be a good friend, and a good person, who doesn't have to have others approve, or disapprove of who you like, or dislike.

The fact that you're confusing between those two, it means that you Shouldn't pick Any of them.
Lawrence: If you pick him and start flirting with him ~~> people will almost immediately start calling you names. And you don't seem to be the type that takes critics quite well. And keep this in mind. Even if he actually falls for you, he will have to dump his current girlfriend first. How would She feel? And can he dump Her for You, he can just dump You for anyone else in the future.
Zach: Leave the poor guy alone if you don't want him as your boyfriend because of his appearance.