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  • Dec 4, 2010, 03:19 PM
    plzanswr
    I'm 16 and my girlfriend is pregnant and she is 16 I want to move out..
    I'm 16 and my girlfriend is pregnant and 4 months she is 16 I want to move out.. but my calls the cops every time I leave the house she knows my girlfriend is pregnant so do her parents I want to move out am I considered emancipated cause I'm going to be a dad?
  • Dec 4, 2010, 03:23 PM
    ScottGem

    ANY question on law needs to include your general locale as laws vary by area.

    In some areas a mother can become emancipated when she becomes pregnant. But I don't of any that apply that to the father. You should be happy you aren't being charged with statutory rape.
  • Dec 4, 2010, 03:29 PM
    plzanswr
    Comment on ScottGem's post
    I'm in California
  • Dec 4, 2010, 03:45 PM
    J_9

    You can't move out until you are 18 or married with your parent's consent.

    You are not emancipated until you go through the court system.

    Do you have a full time job? Can you support yourself without the help of anyone?
  • Dec 4, 2010, 04:41 PM
    Blackula
    To become emancipated, you would have to show that being freed from your parents is in your best interests. By getting a 16-year-old pregnant and repeatedly running away from home, you have pretty much bombed any possibility of that. What you would need to do to become emancipated: 1) Marry your girlfriend, which also establishes your parental rights. 2) Attain economic self sufficiency by earning enough of an income to maintain a household and support two dependents. 3) Demonstrate academic achievement, that you are capable of graduating high school, and are likely to attend college.

    All in all, to become an emancipated minor, you would need to become a tremendously responsible and conscientious person, at which time I expect your parents would be more comfortable with you making these decisions anyway.
  • Dec 4, 2010, 04:56 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Blackula View Post
    1) Marry your girlfriend, which also establishes your parental rights.

    Seems highly unlikely since that would require parental approval for both of them.
  • Dec 4, 2010, 05:11 PM
    plzanswr
    Im 16 and my gf is pregnant and 16 can i marry here without my parents opinion?
    Can i marry my gf without having my parents preventing me from marring her?
  • Dec 4, 2010, 05:17 PM
    cdad

    No you have to get their permission.
  • Dec 4, 2010, 05:20 PM
    ScottGem

    Please don't start multiple threads over the same issue. And please don't type in all caps.

    And no you cannot get married without parental consent. In addition CA law requires court approval over and beyond parental consent.

    If you have a follow-up question please use the Answer options, not the Comments.
  • Dec 4, 2010, 05:57 PM
    Blackula
    Comment on ScottGem's post
    That's the point. 1-3 are all highly unlikely for this guy. Ergo, "All in all, to become an emancipated minor, you would need to become a tremendously responsible and conscientious person . . ."
  • Dec 4, 2010, 06:15 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Your parents want what is best for you, where do you want to "go to" her house and move in with her ?

    Let her have the baby, and be a father to the child. If this is what is suppose to be, then in a couple years you can move in together.

    Your parents are trying to protect you from another in a series of poor choices
  • Dec 11, 2010, 01:05 PM
    plzanswr
    If I get married at 16 what are my rights after that?
    I want to move out from my moms house and I'm 16 if I get married can I move out I know I have to get a letter signed by her I will do that but will I be able to move out?
  • Dec 11, 2010, 01:17 PM
    Wondergirl

    Why do you want to move out?
  • Dec 11, 2010, 01:20 PM
    justcurious55

    1) we need to know what state you are in to know the laws.

    2) why do you want to move out? Because that's really why you want to get married, right? I don't think there's any nice way to put this, so I'm just going to be blunt. Getting married to move out is a stupid, stupid, stupid idea.

    Marriage is a serious commitment. Vows for better or for worse. And if you get married at 16 just to move out, it's almost a guarantee that you'll be starting at for worst.

    How will you finish school? Do you have a job? How will you support yourself and your husband? Or even just you if you were to move out without getting married? How will you pay rent? Put food on the table? Do you even know how much rent usually is in your area? In mine it runs anywhere from about 500 to share a room to 1,200+ for a studio apratment. Do you have money like that? Don't forget you'll also probably have to pay for utilities-things like gas, water, electricity, if you want internet or cable that's even more. And if you get married, you and your husband would have to get your own health insurance. You wouldn't be able to be on your parents's plans. And these are just a few of the things you have to consider before moving out. The list could go on.
  • Dec 11, 2010, 01:53 PM
    plzanswr
    I'm 16 I'm a guy:) and my girlfriend is pregnant I want to move out because I can't get a job stuck at my house and I know were I can get a job no questions asked.. and I have a place to stay for a couple months until I have enough to get my own place...
  • Dec 11, 2010, 02:23 PM
    Wondergirl

    High school diploma? What does "own place" mean? What about the girl's parents?
  • Dec 11, 2010, 02:24 PM
    plzanswr
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    If I get married can I move out??
  • Dec 11, 2010, 02:28 PM
    Wondergirl

    It would be insanity to move out.
  • Dec 11, 2010, 02:29 PM
    plzanswr
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    But I'm asking you if I get married would I be able to move out??
  • Dec 11, 2010, 02:36 PM
    Wondergirl

    You haven't told us what state you live in as to what are the laws.

    Getting married at 16 is also insanity.

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