My grilfrend tells me that I have no clue how much she loves me. She call me everyday but she don't talk for very long. She tries to see me at work but that is also very short even when she has the time. Its allmost like she needs to see me and talk to me everyday and when she dose that its enough for her. Help

If this is not the way you want a relationship to go, then you need to communicate your concerns. If that does no good then you must re-evaluate this situation and make the necessary changes that make you happy. First you must know what it is you want from this relationship.

I feel this way about my boyfriend all the time. I love him and I tell him that I love him. I wish I could see him at work like I wish he would visit me at work or even take me out to lunch. We talk on the phone for 5 min on our lunch everyday. We don't say much besides I miss you and I love you and I'll see you at home. There's nothing wrong with this. Women think about their men everyday and hope that they daydream about us too. But we know, they don't! So don't worry about it. She sounds madly in love with you and you should be lucky that she's not feeling this way about any other man.

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My grilfrend tells me that I have no clue how much she loves me. She call me everyday but she dont talk for very long. she trys to see me at work but that is also very short even when she has the time. its allmost like she needs to see me and talk to me everyday and when she dose that its enough for her. help

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I am confused, are you saying your girlfriend needs you too much and that you don't like that, or are you saying she doesn't spend that much time with you and you don't like that?

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Originally Posted by safeguard

My grilfrend tells me that I have no clue how much she loves me. She call me everyday but she dont talk for very long. she trys to see me at work but that is also very short even when she has the time. its allmost like she needs to see me and talk to me everyday and when she dose that its enough for her. help

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I believe by not talking to you all the time she is in fact strengthening the relationship. If you talked for hours a day then you'd run out of things to talk about and be bored.