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  • Dec 2, 2010, 10:32 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Can I find someone with only 4 photos of him?
    A jerk once tricked me into falling for him using someone else's identity. But unfortunately for him, I doubted it from the very first time we spoke. He only got me when he sent me pictures of a guy, who is obviously not him. But now I find myself loving the eyes of that person so much I really need to find him. All I need to know is who he is, and to become his friend, that's all. But now I only have his pictures. I tried tineye.com, no luck! Anyone with other ideas? Thanks a lot anyhow.
    And for those who think I'm stalking the guy, no I'm not. I just simply love his eyes and want to talk with Him once for real. Don't plan on doing any stupid or disrespectful thing to him.
  • Dec 2, 2010, 07:38 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    No this is very scary behavior personally and sounds like stalking.

    There is no way to find a person, the photos may be taken off millions of web pages, or from other dating sites.
    They may be gay, be married, or be dead.

    Go on with life meeting real life people who will respond to you and are looking for the same things you are.
  • Dec 3, 2010, 04:27 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Thank you for your response but as I said, I 'm not stalking this guy. I still live my life and meet with other people just fine, at the matter of facts I'm very happy now. But just put yourself in my shoes, spending 4 months straight staring at the pictures of this guy with the thought that he is your boyfriend, the one you love so much, and in the end he turns out to be a nobody who doesn't even know you exist. Of course it would be right to try to find him. To make it clear, I'm no longer in love with him now that I've known the truth, I just find his eyes very beautiful so I want to be friends with him.
    There are many cases where people actually find their best friend or even lovers through the internet, so I want to take my chances. One has every right to hope right?
  • Dec 3, 2010, 04:34 AM
    NeedKarma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aleeravilu View Post
    To make it clear, I'm no longer in love with him now that I've known the truth, I just find his eyes very beautiful so I want to be friends with him.

    There something not right with your thought pattern here. You want to be friends with an anonymous photo because of its eyes. You have no idea of the person's personality of disposition. It sounds very shallow to have that as your criteria for friendship.
  • Dec 3, 2010, 06:58 AM
    Mini_Her
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Aleeravilu View Post
    Thank you for your response but as I said, I 'm not stalking this guy. I still live my life and meet with other people just fine, at the matter of facts I'm very happy now. But just put yourself in my shoes, spending 4 months straight staring at the pictures of this guy with the thought that he is your boyfriend, the one you love so much, and in the end he turns out to be a nobody who doesn't even know you exist. Of course it would be right to try to find him. To make it clear, I'm no longer in love with him now that I've known the truth, I just find his eyes very beautiful so I want to be friends with him.
    There are many cases where people actually find their best friend or even lovers through the internet, so I want to take my chances. One has every right to hope right?

    This sounds very very VERY crazy, and kind of silly to actually try to track down a guy using only online photos. Billions of people use the internet daily. You have more luck hitting the lottery than finding that guy.
  • Dec 3, 2010, 08:23 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Quote:

    There something not right with your thought pattern here. You want to be friends with an anonymous photo because of its eyes. You have no idea of the person's personality of disposition. It sounds very shallow to have that as your criteria for friendship.
    @NeedKarma : Eyes can tell a lot about one's personality, and you can actually feel drawn to one person just by looking at their eyes . And for your kind information, I study both psychology and criminology so I At Least know what kind of person is suitable to be friend with (and eyes has nothing to do with it, but if one has eyes that look at you as if he/she wants to skin you alive, you should stay very far away don't you think? ). I'm not talking about becoming all buddy buddy with the guy in the picture, I just simply want to talk to him once for real and if he's cool then maybe we can be friends. Nothing less, nothing more.
    @Mini_Her: The word Impossible itself means Im possible. Well, just kidding, it's super insane, I know, that's why I said I wanted to take my chances. Even if I can never find him, it's OK, there are still 9 billions other people in this planet for me to meet, so no big deal. But it would be nice if I can though ^^
  • Dec 3, 2010, 08:24 AM
    NeedKarma
    I've taken psych courses too AND I'm handy with Photoshop. Good luck chasing something that may very well be fake.
  • Dec 3, 2010, 08:29 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Comment on NeedKarma's post
    Well if that's the case, it's my bad luck then, still, no big deal. And I know what magic can be done by PS too as I've done many photos before. So thank you for taking your time to tell me what I've already known :)
  • Dec 3, 2010, 08:39 AM
    NeedKarma
    Cheers for being a good sport about the whole thing, we were a little harsh on you in retrospect. :)
  • Dec 3, 2010, 08:57 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Comment on NeedKarma's post
    Oh so you do realize that :)). It's OK, you guys were just trying to help. Thanks anyway
  • Dec 3, 2010, 09:32 AM
    Aleeravilu
    Anyone else can help me??
  • Dec 31, 2010, 07:29 PM
    widiwiduri
    Did you find him? I'd like to know because I'm in the same position now:(
  • Dec 31, 2010, 08:34 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    No there is no way to find them from just there photo,
    And this photo could be years old, or a married person, even a gay person, you don't know. Or even a famous model, but most often a photo shopped photo, using a few different people , so it is really no one.

    You really just need to move on and forget it

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