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  • Dec 1, 2010, 11:32 PM
    jaelyn22
    How to tell when I got pregnant?
    I was with my ex for almost 5 years and we always had unprotected sex. Well after tons of problems in our relationship we broke up. I slept with this new guy thinking it would help but I just ended up pregnant. I slept with the new guy on August 19th and I felt really guilty. So when my ex called me late that Saturday night I slept with him, which was August the 22nd. My LMP was August 8th or 9th! Is there anyway to tell who my baby's daddy is?
  • Dec 2, 2010, 12:04 AM
    J_9

    Having intercourse this close together makes it impossible to tell when you conceived. The only way you are going to find out who the father is would be to have a paternity test done after the birth of the baby.
  • Dec 2, 2010, 12:26 AM
    jaelyn22
    Thanks. I knew there wasn't a way to find out exactly besides a DNA test, which I am getting. I was just curious to see what people who answer. Its so stressful and I feel horrible. These are the only two guys I've slept with but yet I feel like the biggest hoe. Sorry but I had to say it. My ex isn't a good guy at all and I recently found out he cheated almost the whole time. The new guy seems so perfect,but the situation were in makes things so stressful. Thanks again:)
  • Dec 2, 2010, 12:30 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jaelyn22 View Post
    I was just curious to see what people who answer.

    As an RN in obstetrics, I can assure you there is no other way to find out, sadly.

    I understand how stressful it is, don't beat yourself up over it. Mistakes happen, yes even life changing mistakes, BUT this can be the beginning of a new you.

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