I separated and now divorced my children both boys live with their father. The eldest son is turning 21 this year and his brother who is 19 rang me and asked if I could contribute money towards his brothers present. The eldest son has not spoken to me for over 2 years as his family home had to be sold cause of the bank's decision and he blames me. I have rang my eldest son and he hung up as soon as he heard my voice. I left it a few days then I text messaged him thinking it might change but he has not responded to my text messages. All responses to this problem will be greatly appreciated. Thank You