Hi I'm in a long term relationship with a guy and have been for nine years what do I do if we're constantly arguing and I just completely don't love him anymore and my feelings for him is corrupt I live with him and I want a way out but due to the fact I'm a low-income person I don't have enough funds to get my own place so want some advice

Go to your low income housing department in your city or county, and request help to get your own place.

I googled low income housing in Monroe, La, and got this,

Monroe Housing Authority Providing Quality And Affordable Housing

Hope it helps and sorry for your situation, Good Luck!

If you aren't happy then you need to leave.

Don't you have any family or friends that could help you out? Couldn't you take a 2nd job to make ends meet?

Definitely leave. If you have family in the area ask to stay with them until you get on your feet. Maybe even ask to stay at a friends for a while and offer to pay what you can until you get on you feet? Also talk to our boss. Tell him you had to move out and now that you completely on your own you need a raise (even if it's a small one its still a raise) to support yourself. Most bosses would definitely extend you the raise. It's all a matter of asking! Good luck!


-Drew

You don't need our permission. IF you want out, then get out.

As for your financial situation. That's the problem with being financially dependent on another person. How was your living arrangement before you moved in with him? Can't you stay with a family or friend temporarily until you get your finances together?

You can't stay together just because you can't afford to be alone.