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  • Jan 7, 2007, 03:17 PM
    Bsugar6969
    Cheating
    Do you think my cousin should stay with this man?
    This guy that she is dating is a cheater!
    My cousin don't think this is true! I went to a function and he was their with a woman.
    I saw a wedding band on his finger! So after in the lady's room she was talking to someone about her husband and kids.

    I told my cousin but he told her its not true. He is dishonest and trying to love two.
    He is at her house everyday, stay over sometimes. She been with him for 5 years.
    I love my cousin and we are close but she love this man.
    I guess I should stay out of it!
    Please tell what I should do! Family is thicker than water! :confused: :confused:
  • Jan 7, 2007, 05:31 PM
    Bluerose
    “I guess I should stay out of it! ”

    I agree. Sometimes all we can do is be ready to pick up the pieces. Continue to care about your cousin and be there for her - be her friend. You have had your say, she knows how you feel. Now just let her get on with it. It's her life.
  • Jan 7, 2007, 07:42 PM
    s_cianci
    Yes, as Blue has said, you've done all that you can realistically do. Now it's for your cousin to deal with.
  • Jan 7, 2007, 09:46 PM
    chuff
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Bsugar6969
    Do you think my cousin should stay with this man?
    This guy that she is dating is a cheater!!

    No I don’t think she should stay with a cheater.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Bsugar6969
    My cousin don't think this is true! I went to a function and he was their with a woman.
    I saw a wedding band on his finger! So after in the lady's room she was talking to someone about her husband and kids.

    I told my cousin but he told her its not true. He is dishonest and trying to love two.
    He is at her house everyday, stay over sometimes. She been with him for 5 years.
    I love my cousin and we are close but she love this man.
    I guess I should stay out of it!!
    Please tell what I should do!! Family is thicker than water!!:confused: :confused:

    If you told her and she doesn’t believe you then you drop it. It’s all on her now.

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