I was in an eight month relationship that ended because she said I wasn't being intentional. I had not talked to her for ten months, but can't stop thinking about her and wishing I was forward with my feelings and intentions. Last month I texted her and she replied with a smile. I wanted to take things casually so I texted her that I wanted her in my life and her friendship was important to me. She texted me not to talk to her. I wish I called her instead and asked her to meet up. Is it too late to call? Should I wait to call or call now?

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Originally Posted by KevinDemonte22

I texted her that I wanted her in my life and her friendship was important to me. She texted me not to talk to her. I wish I called her instead and asked her to meet up. Is it too late to call? Should I wait to call or call now?

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Why do you wish you called her? She's been clear enough.
Wait to call, forever.

Is everyone shopping on black Friday or is there any other feedback. Waiting to call her for the rest of my life doesn't seem very optimistic. I don't want to hang on to the past. I either want to move on or give us another chance.

I think you should move on, she told u not to talk to her, maybe you should listen to her and move on, I'm sure you can find someone better eventually.

Move on with NO CONTACT.

Well you didn't talk to her for ten months, so she has most likely moved on. I suggest you try to forget about her and move on too. That is hard to do but you can't go after someone who doesn't want you.

Move on, she said don't talk to her, so leave her alone.

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Originally Posted by KevinDemonte22

She texted me not to talk to her.

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You sound very selfish. I wanted this, I wanted that... blah blah blah.

Seems like its all about what you want. And she had enough of that the first time around and has been pretty obvious with what she wants this time round as well.

And what she wants isn't you.

Unselfish people that give up are home alone on the weekends and didn't go to prom. Guys like me **** the prom queen. Enjoy online dating y'all.

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