I and my girl frien have been together for almost morthan 9months now and I am not actually interested in having sex with any other girl but only her. She is stii a virgin.we often kiss romance ang get nacked.I even make her feel sexually exited but still she does not permit me to go in for sex. I love her morthan everything in the world.I love her so much may god be my wiknes. Iat first I never encouraged the idea but the more I get to touch romantically with her the more I am tempted. But now I can't hold it.I want her to also love me as I do love her more than I do. So the way I can preserve her is to disvirgin her.but yhe fact still stand that she will travel for studies... she may be tempted to have sex with some one else in my absence after me disvirgin her seaking for pleasure or in facyt I really don't know... all I want is for you to help me keep my girl both sexually and emotionally pationately and erotically the way she could never go for another man. I love this girl so I will give my best to preserve her. I believe by disvirgining her she could be forever faithful to me. *** help me..

You can't convince someone to have their first time to be with you. They will do it when they are ready, otherwise it's not any different than a rape.

So don't force her. And stop thinking that if she sleeps with you she will sleep with other people too. Respect her and trust her. If you love each other and when you both are emotionally ready (looking at what you wrote, I'd say in a few years at least) it will come naturally. Sex is NOT a way to keep someone.

Don't rush into things. You will have plenty of time for sex once you are a little older, so just enjoy your relationship with her for now.

Forcing or pressuring her into having sex with you is more likely to drive her away than bring you two closer. If she is not ready or willing to have sex with you, and you really love her, then you will be patient and wait.

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Originally Posted by bryan4

i and my girl frien have been together for almost morthan 9months now and i am not actually interested in having sex with any other girl but only her. she is stii a virgin.we oftenly kiss romance ang get nacked.i even make her feel sexually exited but still she does not permit me to go in for sex. i love her morthan everything in the world.i love her so much may god be my wiknes. iat first i never encouraged the idea but the more i get to touch romantically with her the more i am tempted. but now i can't hold it.i want her to also love me as i do love her more than i do. so the way i can preserve her is to disvirgin her.but yhe fact still stand that she will travel for studies...she may be tempted to have sex with some one else in my absence after me disvirgin her seaking for pleasure or in facyt i realy dont know...all i want is for u to help me keep my girl both sexually and emotionally pationately and erotically the way she could never go for another man. i love this girl so i will give my best to preserve her. i belive by disvirgining her she could be forever faithful to me. *** help me..

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How old are you?

You're spelling and grammar concerns me, and leads me to believe that you are to young to engage in sexual activities.

I will agree with the last two posters as you can not force her or anyone for that matter to have sex with you.

Your love is more lust, than love, and you sound like you need to consult with either your father, or hers, to get some valuable advice about manhood, and bull crap. You seem to have them very mixed up!