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  • Nov 21, 2010, 09:13 PM
    jun10rocks
    15 year old dating a 11 year old
  • Nov 22, 2010, 01:08 AM
    joypulv
    Absolutely no dating an 11 year old.
    What is your question about this?
  • Nov 22, 2010, 04:41 AM
    ScottGem

    An 11 yr old should not be "dating"! In a year or two she can start going on group "dates". In my opinion one on one dating shouldn't start until 14.

    And a 4 yr gap at this point (11-15) is way too much. When both parties are adults, 4 years is nothing. But when one or both of the parties are minors, it's a huge gap in development, interests and maturity.

    Why are you asking? If you are the 11 yr old what do your parents say about it?
  • Nov 24, 2010, 12:21 PM
    scenekid
    When I was 11 I dated an eightgrader(15) my relationship lasted awhile but ended painfully for 6 monthes he was cheating on me so I would go out with some one your age and someone you have more things in commen with... I was heart broken for awhile
  • Nov 24, 2010, 12:48 PM
    Alty

    At 15 and 11 it's more than a 4 year gap in maturity. An 11 year old is a child, not even a teen yet. If you're not even allowed to cross the street by yourself than you shouldn't be dating.

    The 15 year old should stick to people closer to his/her age.
  • Nov 24, 2010, 01:53 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by scenekid View Post
    when i was 11 i dated an eightgrader(15) my relationship lasted awhile but ended painfully for 6 monthes he was cheating on me so i would go out with some one your age and someone you have more things in commen with ....... i was heart broken for awhile

    And that's part of our point. An 11 yr old doesn't have the maturity to handle a romantic relationship. That's why 11 yr olds shouldn't be dating. I'm hoping he didn't take advantage of you in other ways as well.
  • Nov 24, 2010, 07:56 PM
    RadioActive697

    Um wow! Coming from a 13 year old that's just nasty and not right. You shouldn't even be dating at that age and the 15 year old who's allowing it is sick. Even if you guys arnt doing anything its still wrong for you guys to even date. Why woundn't the 15 year old date someone his own age snd the 11 year shouldn't even be thinking about dating.
  • Nov 24, 2010, 10:18 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    An 11 year old is a child and should not be dating, even the 15 year old would just be started dating.
  • Nov 30, 2010, 01:29 PM
    leonie_leonie0
    Eww! That's actually disgusting seeing as 11 year old is a child it's not right. Maturity, You see some 11 year old look like there about 12-13 and act it 2 but there not so even if she does act like she is 15. It's disgusting and shows your depeserate what would you do to this little girls heart if you 'dumped' her?! Disgusting.No it shoudnt be aloud
  • Dec 16, 2010, 08:58 PM
    BritneyS
    I'm 11 and datin a 15 yr old
  • Dec 17, 2010, 04:10 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BritneyS View Post
    im 11 and datin a 15 yr old

    And what do your parents say about this? And what do you define as dating? In my opinion 11 is way too young for one on one dating. I don't know any 15 yr old who would date someone so young except with one thing in mind.
  • Dec 17, 2010, 05:02 AM
    Fr_Chuck

    Perhaps the 15 year old wants to play with barbies and easy bake ovens, Or they are trying to get the 11 year old to do things very outside of their proper age group.

    An 11 year old is a child and has no busienss dating

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