Disrepect husband and disrepect step daughter.
My husband and I knew each other for 4 years and we were living together. Finally we got married this year 2010. My husband has a 13 years old daughter. Since I knew my husband, daughter doesn't like me at all because she afraid that I take his love away from her. She always talk rude to me all the time. We were living in the same roof. So I was mad and went to talk about that with my husband. My husband was upset because he doesn't want to hear anything , how disrepect his daughter toward me. He said I don't love her and treat her as a daughter.that's why I always having a problem with her and tell on her all the time. He said he doesn't want to hear that. He got mad at me all the time. His daughter is very rude and disrepect, even sometime she disreprect her own dad. She always go on her way to make her dad mad by having bad grade in school and so on.
We tried our best to raise her as a good child but she seem doesn't change her attidue. She was out of control so he called her mom to see if she want to take care a daughter. Her mom doesn't want to because she remarried to another spanish guy and she told him that she only had one children with the ex(they have two children, both kept one). The ex wife hung up on my husband when my husband explained the problem of daughter.
My step daughter doesn't know anything about that. She always think her mom would take care of her all the time so she report child service on my husband twice time. My husband got mad and blame on me for every time she had a problem with him. That really made me upset because I didn't do anything wrong. I am not the one who make his daughter being rudness, disrespect and so on.
My husband has a very hot temper. He doesn't want to hear anything from me for every time I tried to explain to him. Lately, he's stress due to our finiancial and his daughter school grade. He disrespect me and cursing at me all the time. I really don't know what to do. Yesterday I tried to help my step daughter to do essay and she just don't even appreciate about it. All she does is givng me an attidue because she doesn't know how to change the paragraph indent. That's really **** up.
We don't have the printer at home. So I have to go to my parent house to print out her essay. My husband doesn't appreciate about it, he texted me that he already locked the door on me, I have to sleep at somewhere. Don't come home. I texted him back said I tried to print out his daughter essay. Where's his manners. He didn't say anything, all he does is saying " **** u" it really made me upset.
He never show the respect toward me and that's how she saw it from him and disrespect me. We were having a problem with her lately because she want to fit in with her friends in school. Everyweek she come home ask to buy cell phone, this and that. And now she also ask to put make up because all her friends put on make up. I am really tired to hear all of that. I really don't know how to deal with my disrepect husband and this step daughter. *** help.