My boyfriend was really more kind to me bt he is so childish and very possesive he is always fighting to me I am getting depressed because of this whtever he did he is saying its right if I do same thing den he is fighting like a mad he was so sweet but why he changed suddenly I want him back like before so kind and also he is not understanding me his affection decreased I can't bare this he luved me more @ first but nw total change every time I'm adjusting I am begging for his love because I want him I can't live witout him taking everything seriously and fighting for small small things he want that I should not say no for anything I don't want him to fight and I want him to consider my ideas and more affection on me what should I do please help me

How old are you two?

Please do not use text. It is hard to fully understand what you're saying.
If your boyfriend is treating you poorly perhaps it's time to leave him alone.
When you let someone run your life and give in to them all of the time, the possessiveness gets worse not better.
You have allowed him to treat you as he does.
You put your foot down. Tell him he either respects your feelings or he goes.

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Originally Posted by meghnaa

i am begging for his love coz i want him i can't live witout him taking everything seriously and fighting for small small things he want dat i should not say no for anything i dnt want him to fight n i want him to consider my ideas n more affection on me what should i do please help me

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This is unhealthy. If he is not able to emotionally satisfy you by showing you the affection you need and being kind to you because you believe that he used to live you more? This is confusing you, in fact, it is confusing me a little bit too. You CAN live without him, and I would suggest you to do that, because it seems as if he is no longer interested in you the way he was at the beginning. The feelings that he had at the beginning were the ones that lead him to be kind to you and show affections, but since they are gone, the other things are also going away.

Find someone that offers what you need, and don't compromise with a person if you are not getting it because you are throwing your happiness away to be with a guy that might not be in love with you the way you are in love with him.

Good Luck,

Javi