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  • Nov 21, 2010, 08:58 AM
    Cachita6666
    My boyfriend Cheated On Me And I took him BACK now I feel Like I hate him!!
    I need Help Advice I don't even know I'm going crazy... My Boyfriend Cheated On me few days ago... I took him back like the next day I feel Like I'm the dumbest girl ever.. But he didn't sleep with anybody or kissed anyone he just told her he liked her And She's so ugly id think he meant it but I still think is something disgusting what he did and I don't know if I will ever forget this... He told me that he doesn't like her but Honestly that broke my heart badly I saw the conversation the girl send it to me and it killed me... And yes I took him back but I feel like I'm never going to trust him again and I hate him for doing this to our relationship but I can't leave him IDK why or is it love or because it was my first boyfriend and I've been with him for almost two years and lost my virginity with him too and id want to do it again with anybody else but I hate my boyfriend so much at the time I want to ruin his life

    He told me he's going to prove to me he loves me in front of my family Should I wait and see or should I tell him how I feel and leave him ( also leaving him is so hard I feel like I hate him for making me go threw this I really wish this was all a dream) :'( :'( :'(
  • Nov 21, 2010, 09:05 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Cachita6666 View Post
    Should i wait and see or should i tell him how i feel and leave him

    Hello C:

    Throw him to the curb.

    excon
  • Nov 21, 2010, 11:08 AM
    Homegirl 50

    Leave him alone.
    All of these feeling going through your mind is not going to help you or the relationship.
    Take a break and get your head on straight. You may find you don't want him anymore.
  • Nov 21, 2010, 11:20 AM
    Enigma1999

    Wait, did I miss something? Your title says that he cheated on you, but then you state that he didn't sleep with nor kiss anyone? So... how exactly did he cheat?
  • Nov 21, 2010, 11:52 AM
    pandead

    Telling someone else you like them can be considered a form of cheating (I know I'd be hurt too) even if it's not as bad as kissing or sleeping with them. You're the one who saw the conversation, did you feel like he didn't like her? (Since it's what he told you... )

    Unfortunately, that ****ty feeling never goes away for too long. I'd say leave him before you start suspecting him all the time, snooping and asking him where he was constantly. It only makes your life (and his, even if he cares about you) a living hell. Find someone who likes you and only you. Good luck!
  • Nov 21, 2010, 12:31 PM
    Homegirl 50

    A relationship full of drama is nothing more than a soap opera. Who needs that!
    If you think you hate him and you don't trust him, leave him alone.

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