Can't sleep and need someone to talk to for a while... well (a man) to talk to...

For anyone to take a stab at understanding what the problem is, you have to give a lot more information than you have already.

Try to state what problems you are having, that you need to talk about, and you will receive answers, suggestions, and guidance in how to deal with them.

This isn't a chat site, but a question and answer forum where questions are asked, and answers are given.

I hope you will try again to offer some insight as to the 'why' part of why you need to talk to someone.