Did he just need a friend or was this a booty call?
My husband, had a different coworker, that at one time liked him (before we were together), they even went on a date, but nothing came of it. We ended up getting together and soon got married. The coworked continued to call and text message. Sometimes the text messages would come late at night. The message was pretty vague, it just said she had a question. I constantly had my attention on this woman, and would bring her up to my husband as I thought her texting him was inappropriate and it was obvious to me anyway that she may still wish to have some sort of relationship with him. He would constantly tell me I was just jealous and thought NOTHING of it, he didn't think it was inappropriate nor that she had ill intentions. He would even say that he found her to be annoying. More recently we separated and as far as I was concerned the relationship was over. He wanted me to come back, we did some marriage counseling and I decided to come back and make it work. I found out when I came back the this exact girl that had bothered me for so long when I was with him, this girl I found myself constantly questioning, had come over to our house
(when we were seperated-I moved out). My husband told me he had called her a few times and text messaged her during our separation and even picked her up from her job late one night and took her over to our house. He said nothing happened and he took her home. At first I believed him but then I started thinking how much it sounded like a booty call. Am I just a niave fool, or could this really just had been what he said which was that it was nothing, and had no intentions of anything beyond just having someone to talk to?