Help me please,bcs I'm going crazy.I just broke up with my girl,we were together for about 6 month I love her to death.she told me I don't love you and I'm not happy with u, I want to be by myself,I ask her babe, let try make it work out.she said no.everything start 2 weeks ago after we had sex she complaint said I wasn't good like other times,but the problem is night before I was work 3rd shift and I went home in the morning I was tired and sleepy,at soon I felt to sleep she came by and we start{PLAYING}.after that day everything went bad ,she start first with the phone every time I was text or calling she wouldn't response,she start retuning my phone calls or text message after 1-2 hours.she stop seeing me every day like use to be before,from every day we went 2 times a week.and today she said I don't love you and I'm not happy with you.I don't want to loose her.WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Sorry but, looks like she was pretty clear... "she said i don't love you and i'm not happy with you". Don't fool yourself, this didn't happen over just one event... I'm sure there are other problems too that have been on the back of her mind for a while. But, in the end who really knows why and you should not focus on that. Even if you knew what the problem(s) is/are it would probably not change anything. The fact is you have lost her.

Anyway, let her go... not much you can do. Don't beg her to come back( you probably have), don't plead or cry in front of her.. she will loose all respect for you. Leave the relationship with dignity, act like there is not a damn thing wrong, stop contacting her.

Move on and find another girl.

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Originally Posted by ironhide262

sorry but, looks like she was pretty clear ....."she said i don't love you and i'm not happy with you". Don't fool yourself, this didn't happen over just one event....i'm sure there are other problems too that have been on the back of her mind for a while. But, in the end who really knows why and you should not focus on that. Even if you knew what the problem(s) is/are it would probably not change anything. The fact is you have lost her.

Anyway, let her go...not much you can do. Don't beg her to come back( you probably have), don't plead or cry in front of her..she will loose all respect for you. Leave the relationship with dignity, act like there is not a damn thing wrong, stop contacting her.

Move on and find another girl.

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Thank you for you advice.I think that's the best what I can do right now is very hard for me but I'm going to try .thank you.

I can understand you want him back but she have made up her mind... so there is no sense going behind her and bugging her she said it to you clearly what she wants if she is not happy with you she will never come back to you and neither you should want her to come back because all this just going to hurt you only.. keep your dignity and respect and move on in life let her go and follow no contact policy for some time till the time your are fine seeing or meeting her... I will suggest MOVE ON that's the best way...