We've benn going out for 8 minths and were 15. How do I get him to put his hands around my waist and tocuh my butt without asking him? He's kind of shy but not too much and he really respects girls.

Why do you want him to do that?

You should never try to get your boyfriend to do something he usually wouldn't do. Let him be him, after all that is what attracted you to him right?

If you want your butt grabbed just ask him.

Awesome! Thanks for the reddie. Just trying to help out!

It could simply be that he isn't doing that because of the way he respects you, talk to him about it and let him know you want him to do that and he may open up more and do so.

Seeing as you're 15, maybe he won't do it because it's entirely inappropriate.