I don't speak english well, so bear with me..

My best friend and I had a fight.. I was trying to tell her something about a friend of mine because there's this anger that's been bottling up inside me so I told her my problem.. she was telling me something, giving some advice and I was just pissed and I told her something that kind of ticked her off, and I didn't mean to take out my anger on her so I said sorry as soon as possible... but she didn't take it.. I've always been the one giving in.. Saying sorry all the time... then she starts to be mad too and being sarcastic, telling me that "oh im sorry, its my fault.. blah blah blah" and she just keep telling it to my face that I'm the bad person here in a sarcastic way.. this happens all the time and I'm kind of fed up with it.. I know she's my best friend and I should accept whatever her attitude is but I'm tired of it... she always makes me the bad guy...

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Originally Posted by joriese

this happens all the time and im kind of fed up with it.. i know shes my bestfriend and i should accept whatever her attitude is

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WRONG! Just because she is your best friend does not mean that you should accept whatever her attitude is. Now, this doesn't justify you taking your anger out on her. It's good that you realize you shouldn't have done that and apologized. But that doesn't give her an excuse to be rude and snotty to you. A real best friend would have understood that your anger was misplaced and accepted your apology. And in the future, you should work on not doing that. Be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If she continues the behavior, then it's time to find new friends.

Hi, uhm, thanks for the reply.. its been 5 days and nothings happening, yesterday I sent her an email, I knew she was online that time but she didn't reply.. so I guess she's still mad at me. Anyway, your reply helped me a lot, thank you. =)