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  • Nov 15, 2010, 10:00 PM
    bcbake
    Bleeding after sex
    Hello, I had rougher sex with my boyfriend on Saturday and I saw a slight color change in my urine (very small amount of blood would have caused it), but I didn't think too much about it. We had sex again on Sunday, but it wasn't rough like Saturday. Then he was rough in fingering me after, but didn't do it for very long because I told him it hurt. Sunday night I began bleeding as much as I do when I start my period and its been over a day.

    I had a yeast infection a couple of weeks ago and they checked for pollups and I recently switched my birth control to Loestrin. I know I don't have an STD because we were both virgins before each other. Do you know what could be causing this?
  • Nov 16, 2010, 04:52 AM
    tickle

    If it is a bright red, it is fresh blood from the rough sex and finger play. Your vaginal wall has been abraided. Always make sure his hands are clean and nails short if he is to do this. As for the rough sex, that will abraid as well.

    Tick
  • Nov 16, 2010, 09:24 AM
    CravenMorhead

    Er... how old are you? I ain't a doctor, maybe you should go see one...
  • Nov 27, 2010, 03:36 PM
    trume3
    WOW that messed up I'm sure its not a std or anything just go to the doctor and see what up with that... good luck hope for the best
  • Nov 30, 2010, 08:37 AM
    CravenMorhead

    tickle does not find this helpful : if you can't think of a satisfactory answer, don't give one
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    So... the 18 or older thing is no longer a requirement? As well as poking the person to see a doctor about blood lose that isn't part of a menstrual cycle?

    People tend not to go to doctors when they really should because they don't tend to think it is important or they're embarrassed. When they're told to go then they should. In this case she should.

    So. Why was this not helpful? I am curious.
  • Nov 30, 2010, 10:15 AM
    tickle

    Hi Craven, it doesn't matter how old she is, she still needs help in determining what is wrong and from her description, and from my viewpoint as a healhcare professional, as an RNA, and experience in helping young women, gave her my opinion.

    Do you really think she is going to come back on and tell you how old she is; that in my viewpoint is a very scary question, and good cause not to ever come back at all.

    Yours reply didn't leave very much to the imagination, as in, how old are you, go see a doctor. How does that help?
  • Nov 30, 2010, 10:22 AM
    Synnen

    Okay, I'm stopping this right now.

    In AS, we NEED an age. We cannot help minors here.

    If you feel that the age question is going to be an issue, then ask that it be moved to Women's Health or something similar in the future.

    And frankly--go see a doctor is all we can really tell someone anyway when it's serious.

    Either way--the age question WILL stand in Adult Sexuality. I refuse to be liable for giving a minor advice on sex.
  • Nov 30, 2010, 10:29 AM
    tickle

    Hi, Synnen, yes, this should have been moved to Women's health. Okay, I agree too about the age issue in adult sexuality. I didn't actually check this time to see what it was under. I don't think it would be an issue in Women's Health.

    To be technical, it is an issue as a direct result of sex, and that passes into a question about repercussions.

    Thanks

    Tick

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