Before we started to date I was just way too in love with him but after two weeks I just started to get annoyed by him, I mean he a good guy and he loves me but right now I just don't know what to do I'm so confused I was thinking to break up but I'm afraid that after breaking up I might like him again!! I need help! Pleaseeee!!

What annoys you about him?

2 weeks is awfully quick to start getting annoyed by your boyfriend.

OK, I'm not really sure about it... we text each other all the time and when I stop texting him for a while he gets all crazy and start telling me that he miss me and asks a lot of fool nonsense stuff... yeah I know it´s awfully quick :((((

Sounds like he might be a little over the top/needy.

If you really like this guy, you can tell him nicely that you feel overwhelmed by him when you don't text for a while.

To be honest though, if he's like this now, he might get worse in the future.

OR... sometimes we want something, get it and realize that what we got wasn't what we actually wanted after all.

Sometimes the 'chase' is what we really wanted, is this a possibility?

Stringer

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Yeah,maybe... so what should I do?
I feel so mean...

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Well, that's the problem, I feel like I'm not longer in love with him!

Wakale,

If you don't want to be with him, then just end the relationship. You don't have to justify your feelings to anyone but yourself. You just need to let him know, and move on.

If you have to force feelings for someone then there is no sense of being in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Just be friends.

You feel like you're no longer in love with him because you never were in love, you were just infatuated.

Just break-up with him.

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yeah,maybe... so what should i do?
i feel so mean...

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My suggestion is to just date until you do find that special person and then go slow, very slow... :)

Stringer

Okay I have lots of experience with this, because I am in the same situation now. Only I started feeling like this, didn't end the relationship and 3 months in a relationship I'm not sure I want to be in. If he's needy and wayy over the top now (which my boyfriend was after only 1 week) trust me IT GETS WAY WORSE! He writes songs for me and puts them on Facebook, and everythings super public with him. I don't even like it when he's like that one on one let alone on Facebook. Now I'm stuck in a sitauation where I feel like I have to force my feelings for a guy whose absolutely obsessed head over heels in love with me. And I'm not the mushy type at all. So do yourself a favor and end it now..