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  • Nov 13, 2010, 05:40 PM
    kpride63
    unexpected crushes?
    okay so I've always been the "outsider"
    and I've always liked guys but no one has every liked me.
    and then I move school, I grow taller, lose wight, grown my hair and wear contacts and now...
    BAM.
    All these guys seem to like me.
    I have no experience how to handle this.
    I mean like, I'm still that nerdy girl inside.
    I don't know how to handle it
    and this one guy keeps on giving me the creeps at times.
    I'm going to wait until the right time to tell him we're just friends.
    But other than that,
    Sometimes, I feel self conscious because all these people are looking at me,
    =3=
    HELP?
  • Nov 13, 2010, 09:05 PM
    I wish

    No harm is making new friends and just getting to know each other better. Just go at whatever pace you're most comfortable with in terms of getting to know someone new.

    The more you interact with people, the easier it will be, it's just a matter of gaining more experience.
  • Nov 15, 2010, 02:14 PM
    mmresd
    It takes experience, you are going through changes now, and you will have to learn to adapt to new things. I am guessing you are fairly young? It's funny because you posted under dating, don't feel pressured to be in a relationship while you don't understand why things are happening yet, that's when we make mistake. It is a wise choice for you to be honest, is important, and you will see that in the long run it will be more beneficial to everyone if you do. So don't be corrupted by eyes starting at you and just act how you want to act, enjoy your life how you have in the past, and there is nothing wrong with being nerdy, the most successful people in this world tend to be. So, just do your thing and try to be drama free.

    Good Luck,

    Javi
  • Nov 16, 2010, 03:29 AM
    kpride63
    Sorry I added it under "dating"
    I didn't realise. :P

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