I was partying with common friend of mine and ma boyfriend.I got late so stayed at his place.But he started kissing me.I pushed him away and I didn't do anything.But he was trying to smootch me that I couldn't resist and I kissed him back for a very little time.As I said I didn't do nythng but the guy was such a despo he was trying all night to convince me.I hate him and never talked to him after that.I told all of it that happened to my boyfriend.He got totally hurt because the guy is his best friend and he never thought that the guy can do such things to me.He lost the trust on his best friend and now he also got angry with me that how can I kiss him back? what was with me? It was my mistake that I kissed him back and I really hate myself for that.I really really love my boyfriend so much.I don't want to see him hurting like this because of me.what should I do?will he able to trust on the things whatever I say to him? I can't get these things out of my mind? what should I do earn his trust back? he thinks that I was also involved in the things that happened that night!
I think he will forgive me for that.But I don't think he can get all these things out of his mind that I kissed another guy.Please help me I really don't want to see him hurting so much..

You should control yourself , I mean come on for god sake , you already have boy friend, and this basterd was trying to kiss you it's his best friend , you should shut out him or slap him on the face, you have to find away to gain the trust of your boy friend , he will have crazy thoughs on his mind, you have to do something big and drama to tell him that you love him so much, the best about you, you told him the truth that you kissed him back, if it was another girl she would be lied, and telling her boy friend he forced me to kiss him back , so now the best way to confess him to trsut you again , is to do crazy thing that showing love , if you really want him , firs talk with him , and cry in front of him, you have to do whatever it takes to take him back again , the key is in your words , so write down what you going to say to him.

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Originally Posted by gara

.you have to do something big and drama to tell him that you love him so much, ...........so now the best way to confess him to trsut you again , is to do crazy thing that showing love , if you realy want him , firs talk with him , and cry infront of him, you have to do whatever it takes to take him back again , the key is in your words , so write down what you gona say to him.

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No... don't do anything crazy or something big and drama.

Haven't you had enough of that already?

Your boyfriend is upset. Rightly so. Leave him alone to deal with his thoughts while you get on with your life alone.

If your boyfriend wants to be with you he will let you know.

But, while you are alone ask yourself why did you kiss the guy back if you really loved your boyfriend? Some guy pestered you until you kissed him doesn't really sit well with me and sounds like an excuse for bad behaviour.

@kaka67:i talked to him.I didn't do any drama.I cried because it was kind of natural because I was hurting him so much that I just can't take.I never lied to him and never did things like this.There is no doubt that I love him or not.I do love him.I did mistake and I agree.When I cried he said its OK we will get through this.I will never say anything on this topic again.But I still somewhere fill that he will not forget whatever happened! And it kills me.Coz every time I think of it I feel guilty.

It will bother him for a long time, but as time passes and he sees that you do not deceive him any more, the memory will slowly fade.

Sounds like you've learned your lesson on this one. Just behave yourself from now on and I think things will work out fine.