Well, I was going out with him for over a year, which is a long time for someone my age (14) and we haven't even been broken up for 2months and she's going out with him. I am really upset, although I was the one that broke up with him. I really don't like him anymore, but I am hurt that I found out from other people because she didn't tell me, or try to talk to me about it first, and that she'd actually go out with him. Am I being pathetic? Please answer..

You are not being pathetic you are just a little shocked that your friend hadn't told you but even if 2 months seems a little bit of time for him to have already found someone else, he has so you just have to understand that he's happy, and if you don't like him anymore you should also try and find someone. It may feel weird or you may feel disrespected because they hadn't told you but it could simply be that maybe your ex didn't want her to tell you or maybe they just didn't know how you would react to it. I think you should just let them be and for yourself to find someone.

I think you might be thinking with the wrong mentality here. You broke up with him, he is mad, semi long term relationship, only 2 months since break up? It seems to me as if he might be trying to get back at you through your friend, or using her as a rebound. Don't be mad at her, take care of her, that is what friends are for. And her private life is hers and only hers, so if she decided not to tell you something that is her business, not yours. So don't be mad because she didn't tell you something that pertained to her romantic life. But, just see how things go, because to me, there are too many factors that lead toward thinking that this might not end up as your best friend might think it will.

Good Luck,

Javi

Thank gawdddd that you don't still like him, that's for sure or you'd be so broken hearted over the whole thing!

Your friend broke the girl code... hmmm, not cool. :(

There's a million boys out there to date.. why date your ex? Ewww.

Try not to let this eat you up... focus on your other friends for the moment. You need a little distance.

Google fogiveness... it'll teach you how to let go of your bitterness and bring peace into your life.

Keep busy and try not to think about the whole drama.

You can't have lost much if this girl would put a dumb boy before ya'alls friendship. I'm just saying... :s