I fathered a child 40 years ago, and found her, I want to see her, but..
I was told not to have any visits, just pay the medical bills and leave. 40 years later I found her married with 3 children. She will email me, and ask many questions, ie; why didn't you... I told her the courts ordered me to keep away... Her mother we think wasn't to sure If was the real father of her child. The blood tests only show I was not excluded. This was in 1970. She had a meeting all set up with me and was going to call me the next day. Well she didn't. I asked 3 times by email over the past month if she was OK. No answer, but she is OK because she is on Facebook telling all the wonderful times she is having with friends, gatherings at her home and sending photos of her family. What can I do? I feel maybe she is worried about telling all her friends and family that the guy on Facebook she has talked with over the past 2 years, IS HER FATHER. Not sure if her husband or kids kow about me. She is very protective of them. I am thinking her Mother suddenly was told and said to keep away. I can only guess. I need ideas. She works with the legal system and many know her.