Is my husband going through midlife crisis?
Been married 30yrs, no kids. I feel I have accomplished / earned my main goals in life (safe private home, my family of animals, some savings to hopefully retire with! ). My husband does not seem to have any goals - and has gone along with my goals with much criticism along the way. But recently he has changed, loss of memory, forgets commitments, loses things all day long, drama queen over the stupidest issues, constant "poor me" attitude because no one want to participate with anything he is working on.
He has no friends, is not a team player, treats people like they are idiots and its all my fault.
I have had enough. I am at a loss for what to do. I feel I have put aside my needs for too many years to keep him happy and enough is enough. I have given him all the options - to please find someone else who will worship him and never question anything he does, try to be a team player, communicate with the team... But he still goes off and does what ever he wants to do and complains/whines/cries when no one has any interest in helping him. What is wrong with him?