I have a boyfriend that is 3 years older than me I am engaged can we get in trouble?

How old are you right now?

Your post fails to make sense. "Me and my husband", "Your boyfriend is three years older than you are"

Are you saying that you are married and have a fiancé that is three years older than you are? It just does not make sense. Are you a Mormon? Do you have children?

Please come back and fill in the missing details!

Did you mean 'future' husband?

Without knowing your age and the country you reside in, it is a question that we can't accurately answer.