How do I get this girl to fall for me again
K so I've dated this girl for 10 months.. she was and still is my first love, I was a shy loser before I met her and she's been the only girl who actually took the time to find me being shy cute, and see who I was outside of school like no other girl would do... my confidence was so lowe for girls after being rejected so many times I tried to make the best of this one. So I asked her out, and she said yes, since then I've been such a different person, I'm more happy more outgoing and a lot of other things. Then a couple days ago, she told me she didn't feel the same about me and broke up with me. Its been 5 days, and my friends keep saying move on but I get texts from her friends saying she can't stop thinking about me. During these 5 days I've also just been a train wreck and not wanting to do anything but cry and write about her to get my thoughts out but there's so many feelings I have for her I can't stop thinking about her. So I've been texting her also and like any girl it's the "i wanna be friends" thing, but I can tell she would give me another shot, but since the dump I've lost all confidence to do try anything because I don't want to ruin the spark we may or may not have... I did ask her to dinner and she said yes and that day is coming shortly but I don't no where to go from there.. *** help
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Yea we all hang out all the time, I have my time with my friends she has her time with hers, but never has she canceld plans with me to hang out with them until now, I feel like I'm boring her or something, I just don't know