I was dating this girl for just a little over a month and previous to that we started talking and hung out for a few weeks before we became official. Anyway, during our relationship we seemed to have a pretty good connection, the physical attraction was amazing and we started talking about we were starting to fall for each other near the end of the 1st month. During when we were official we had a tendency to get into arguments about really dumb things, most of them being stupid sarcastic stuff I said. Yes, its in my nature to have a sarcastic attitude sometimes but I don't usually mean it and she took it offensively and claimed I wasn't respecting her. I also have a bad habit of being negative and sometimes losing my temper, but she always tells me I have a good heart and I am a good guy. We went out a couple nights ago and had an amazing time, laughing and dancing, it was great. But, when we got back to my house, I said something stupid again and she got upset and broke up with me. After that, she left and when she got home she text me saying she doesn't know if she wanted to break up and she said she felt our feelings for each other could get us through anything but her gut is telling her to break up. I agreed with her and afterwards we both slept on it and spoke the next day. That next day we came to conclusion to officially break up but continue to "see each other" monogamously. We both want the same thing... to work towards a healthy relationship. So what I'm asking is if anyway has had experience with taking a step back in order to move in the right direction. Am I wasting my time or does it sound like this could work out? I would really appreciate any advice :)