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Thanks.

My god... That's a tough one... One word "counselling" firstly for him because he must have issues around sexuallity/ intimacy. Hopefully he realizes that it it is not all about him... And that eventually it becomes "unjustly" a selfesteem issue for you. So its important to get to the bottom of this... the sooner the better

Did you know this before you married him?
How old are the two of you?
Have to talked to him about this?
How long have you been married and have you tried counseling?

Amaron, please don't post in all caps, on the internet it's considered yelling. Thanks. :)

I would also like to know the OP's (original posters) age, the age of her husband, and how long they've been together.

Is this a new issue or has he always had this issue?

Wow, that is an issue. I would like to know if this is a new problem, as well? Maybe he liked it before and recently you have seen a decline or lack of interest on his part. Do you think maybe he is getting it else where? If your sure he isn't and he just really doesn't like it, I would ask him what if anything does he enjoy. Foreplay, the act itself, etc. Maybe he is getting bored. Try different positions, you could could watch movies together and find ideas from that. Maybe bring some "toys" in to the mix, that may work. If you aren't sure what to get and don't want to go to one of the stores that sells that sort of stuff, so often people have those "for ladies only" parties (like Sugar and Spice, Surprise Party, varies names). If you have a friend that is having one see if she can get you a catalog ahead of time and look at it together and pick some that might look interesting. (and if you don't know anyone having one... have one yourself).