Recently, I've been having troubles getting an erection. Its only been half a week of this, but its extremely annoying, and embarrassing. Once I start having sex, I have no problems keeping it, and it gets pretty hard, as long as I make sure I focus on what I'm doing. This is the first time its happened to me.

Recently, my girlfriend had a week where she didn't want to have sex. We also had a fight around this time too, I'm wondering if this has something to do with it. I suffer from depression and anxiety, so those are probably having something to do with it. Is there anything I can do? It takes my girlfriend about 30-60 minutes to get me erect (used to be maybe 5 minutes max of making out and playing with each other), and I think it is starting to bother her.

Depression and anxiety can effect your ability, plus dozens and dozens of medications can effect ability.

Discuss it with your doctor and go over changes that has happen since it has been taking longer