Originally Posted by CHOLO_Bangladesh
ok,this is something like a very unusual story.4 years ago someone broke my heart and i was really devastated then .and i thought i would never get a girl like her in my life.
But 3 months ago there was a girl i met i fell for her at the first sight.She is kind of my student.I told my collegue about her.and i was serious.it is to be mentioned that we sometimes crck jokes about our students.Now then i never called her.because although she was in my mind but i forgot because of my work pressures.
One day i received a call from her and i was something totally shocked.Then tht very night i began to SMS her then finally srarted talking to her.It was a week tht we talked really four-five hours at night and if we had chances we also used to talk 1-2 during daytime.She was kind of ...always asking wht are ou doing,dont go there,dont smoke and stufffs like those.
Now after one week suddenly one day she told me tht she had a boy friend.And i was kind of totally shocked.but tokk it very firmly.But i also informed her about my feelings and she said i was late.
So suddenly i backed of.i started to talk less with her.but thn things began to change very thick and fast she started to saying listen i want to be with u just as a friend and this is because of ur good so tht u dont feel my not being there.
it has been two months we are in the friendship condition.we went out for four dates.i kissed her in the forehead .now she was kind of hold my hand in the public.but i was frustrated to know that in one date she dated her boyfriend just before me.She showed me the pictues of them.She also introduced myself with some of her friends.
now from other sources i came to know that they are having a relation ship more than 1 yearr.And she told me she can't think anything longterm without her boyfriend.But she would have consider me hadnt her boyfriend been thr.she also told me tht her boyfrind wwas also at her home one night.but they didnt have sex.
Now my question is wheneever she gets time she calls me,she is kind of very normal,trying to have fun with me.whether she is trying to extract the fun part out of me or not.I am really confused at this point of time. she is driving me crazy.She sometimes says me 'u dont know how special u r to me" .then again she sometimes says comn i have my husband ...she is kind of very smart chick.i dunno what to do.i can't let go and i am not getting the acces in her life .
The fun part is my mind is saying why would she call u and let u kiss her even though she has a boyfriend.Why would she go crazy and come to my house whn i turn my cell off?why should she listen to wht i say?i mean i love the open hair,she comes infront of me in open hair.i mean why is she then responding to what i say if she has nothing for me?
My question is "is this relatioship a risky project? wht should be the next steps?"
BTW if she know that i am going out with some other female friends of mine she gets jeoulous even talking to them.
