I have the greatest two best friends ever. The three of us (two girls one guy) are virtually inseparable. We all do everything together. We go out together, go on vavation together, are in the same class, sit next to each other in every lesson, share secrets, tell stories--the works. Me and my guy best friend(lets call him bob) are the closest ever. All of a sudden we started realising that we had massively strong feelings for each other. I go to him for everything and visa versa. We started going out just the two of us but have never called it a date. We act like a couple all the time when its just us but when there's our girl best friend (lets call her marge) we find it hard to be that way. He gives me feelings that I can't explain and I've never fallen this hard in love before. The only problem is I'm terrified that if bob and I date, that would leave marge stranded which we really don't want. I'm also really scared of taking that sort of plunge with my best friend... what if we date and it doesn't work out? I love him so much and if our relationship soesnt work, where would that leave us as friends or even aquaintances? Is it worth it? I NEED ADVICE PRONTO!

I know I'm doing this off your server bestie but this I have to do. You have to think about the risk you're taking and if its worth it. You're fifteen and I really don't think a relationship at this age will result in marriage. Best friends though usually last a lifetime and that's something you always want to have. You too are the most perfect best friends ever. Its so hard to find a girl and guy who are so close, its scary and I wish I had that kind of friendship. You have it in the palm of your hand and its not going anywhere just yet. Think about if you're willing to throw that away babe.. .

I say don't take the plunge. You gave two good reasons: "marge" will be stranded and you will lose "bob" as your best friend (and maybe forever lose him as a friend -- and lose "marge" too).

I am not sure who answered you, using your own account, but unless you left yourself logged in, they also knew your user name and password.

And your "friend" did not really explain who there where and why they were on your computer.

I am leaving this for now.

Fr Chuck , Moderator